30 things I know at 30
Three decades around the sun.
- Action produces information.
- Thinking is a form of dissociation.
- You don't have to keep thinking. You can just stop.
- Resist the pull of extremes and absolutes. Balance is boring, but usually the right approach.
- Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard.
- Luck = hard work + opportunity.
- Being early beats being fast.
- Serendipity is controllable. It's proportional to your luck surface area.
- Success is a strong link problem. Iterate, fail, and learn quickly while maximizing serendipity. Enough attempts and success is guaranteed.
- Health is a weak link problem. Identify the biggest bottleneck and completely solve it before moving to anything else. Benching 225 doesn't matter if you have cancer.
- Health is a cold start problem. Your mood, sleep, diet, energy, and ability to exercise are interdependent. If you're starting from scratch, you'll have to do a few new things at once.
- Health anxiety is unhealthy.
- Anyone who professes to care about their time but not their health is not fundamentally serious.
- Most people would give up everything they own to go back in time 10 years.
- The best way to clean up a kitchen is while you're cooking the meal.
- The easiest path to tastier food is higher quality ingredients.
- Calling friends, meditation, and journaling is always underrated.
- Small talk is deeper than deep talk.
- Tesla will beat Waymo. It won't even be close.
- Health, social intelligence, attention, agency, taste, and trust will become increasingly valuable as automation eats the world.
- Angled showerheads > rain showerheads.
- There is no single unifying experience of New York City. It's a mirror. The sheer diversity & density reflects who you are.
- Life's better on offense.
- In a world of increasing convenience, seek friction to fight atrophy.
- Every world-changing technology is a double edged sword.
- Learning compounds faster than capital.
- Energy management over time management.
- Creation is the antidote to glassy-eyed, drooling consumption.
- You are not a population. For you, things only need to work out once.
- Follow the rules so you can break them later.
To friends, family, teachers, strangers, loved ones, authors, avatars, enemies, entertainers, competitors, forefathers, and butterflies: Thank you for shaping me into who I am.
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